
I have twice done Integrative Coaching with Darby Barclay. The results have reached far beyond anything I could have ever imagined. I produced the results I set out to produce, and the path was one I was not expecting at all.
The first time through I said I wanted to create an amazing relationship with the boyfriend I was with. What I discovered from searching my heart in our coaching was that I was in a relationship that did not support me, I wasn't loved or honored in the way I really wanted to be. In fact, I discovered this was a pattern in my life. Through Darby’s coaching I found the courage within myself to admit that, to do the work of loving that part of myself, and the courage to end the relationship so I could heal and open up to an amazing relationship.
I changed careers and tried something completely new for a year and from that I discovered what I'm truly passionate about, where my talents truly are and I'm in the process of obtaining that.
In my second time of Coaching with Darby I was single. I met and I fell in love with the most amazing man! I was not looking for a relationship when I first me him, and everything about our relationship is a miracle. When he asked me out, I said, “no”. I told him I was not interested in a relationship or dating. The following day, after checking in with myself, I chose to go on the date, to trust we met for a reason; whatever that was, and just have fun. It’s completely blossomed from that day.
I also took responsibility for what I had tolerated in my previous relationships and how I had sold out on myself and what I really wanted and deserved. I have experienced power, confidence and self worth for the first time in this new relationship. I no longer doubt my worthiness. This man loves that about me, he honors and respects me. As Darby has said, “ my ceiling became my floor”; meaning what I used to reach for is now here, it’s now the foundation I stand on and I won’t allow for anything less, and yet so much more.
On top of all this I have chosen to move out of state to start a brand new chapter of my life with the man I love. I’m excited about the adventure of moving and creating new friendships, a new community, and new career.
If you’re considering coaching with Darby, just do it! Darby is an amazing man whose God given talent is to coach you, teach you and support you. You will feel heard and understood as never before. No matter what it is you’re up to in life – if you’re willing to do the work – it will happen. Just be willing to have it all!!! Darby lights the way while you’re walking the path!
Peg Anderson
San Diego CA