Is your career, job, relationship, marriage or life not what you expected? Is your vitality being zapped? Are you bored and tired? Ever get the feeling that something is going to come along and change the course of your life? That you are destined for something great? More money, or success, your purpose to become clear? Are you waiting and hoping for some event in the future to come along and change things for you? Check in, take a look, and be honest with yourself. Are you waiting? I’ve got some bad news for you. Nothing is coming to save you, and hope is not an action, but waiting is. And, you can wait for the rest of your life and there will be no positive outcome. I have no idea what you are destined for. It might be to simply accept and love where you are right now. There is a lot of freedom in that. Or, there may be some calling that you have no idea how to access, let alone how to move towards and fulfill. Reading self help books and articles, listening to those CD’s, going to seminars, and retreats are all good things to do to motivate yourself and get some juices going, however, you will most likely return to your environment, your conditioning, beliefs, patterns and concepts and be back to normal within a few days, hoping and waiting. Dave Buck says “going to a seminar is a form of entertainment unless it is followed up with some type of support system such as a coaching relationship". The problem is you return to your environments and those are set up by the old you. I would add the most important of those environments is the one that is the hardest to renovate, your inner environment. Of all the things you can do to start living the life you want, hiring a personal coach is the most powerful thing you can do. I did. If you are ready to take your life back go on the internet and search coaching. Interview coaches as you would if you were going to hire an employee. I recommend you hire an Integrative Coach because they are trained to help you access your inner resources and inner wisdom, and to integrate all that conditioning and those beliefs and concepts that are in your way, (your inner environment). Make sure there is chemistry between you and your coach. This person should have done their own work so they can be with anything that comes up in the coaching relationship without injecting their stuff into the mix. Great coaches stay out of the way; they are artists not technicians. Find yourself an artist. I would love to speak with you if you are ready to take yourself on and be coached. I offer a money back Guarantee that your expectations will be exceeded or I return my fee to you. No one has ever exercised this option. Visit my website @ www.darbybarclay.com November 12, 2008 San Diego, CA